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Change Your Thoughts

Norman Vincent Peale


Looking back over the past four years, our lives have been filled with so many discoveries, both personally and professionally. These years have flown by adding more of them to the pile we have already accumulated. They have allowed us to grow internally and to truly focus on our future and a new way of life; one less complicated, simpler, in the country with our horses. This dream started with just a thought so many years ago and has led us to where we are today.

     We really worked hard mentally, physically and, emotionally to be where we are in our transformation, and we continue to live each day with the same solid effort and determination. We knew at the onset of our voyage that a lot of things had to change in order to realize our dream of a country life. At times, the idea of change was very scary, but we knew our minds, hearts and souls needed to be open to receiving, exploring, and learning in order to reach our destination.

    Reaching for our new life in the country, planted from that tiny seed all those years ago, was set in motion when we left the family business. This was the time for us to go for it! We started planning right out of the gate. The roads we traveled were unfamiliar and new; up and down, round and round we went, dealing with everyday life, our new business, and the ongoing move added even more twists and turns to our existence. Ironically, the roller coaster ride of emotions that we experienced is what gave us the mental strength to finish the ride.

    The chances and changes on the journey of life are unpredictable. Of all the roads we went down, astonishingly, one path landed us in a very familiar place. Our travels took us back to a world we left behind…back to the family business. Who would have thought that we would ever return, but due to the business's situation, it was necessary to take the plunge and dive back in. How does one's life change in so many ways, yet land in the exact spot they started ...and oh gosh, how will all this fit in to our “simpler country life”? Gratefully, the return did not stop us from moving forward. However, we did juggle for a while whether to move or not, but we stayed on target and decided to MOVE!

    Learning more and more from each and every journey, and keeping this knowledge close; we realized and understood the importance of focus and perception. This is how we achieved genuine change in our lives. When it all remains the same; the people, the places, the things, ourselves, we gain comfort and we feel secure. But idleness breeds stagnancy; change is what breeds growth. For some, the familiarity of consistency is satisfying, but for others, their dreams are what fuel their ambition. To change your world you must change your thoughts and step outside of your comfort zone. Authentic change occurs from within.     

Change your thoughts and you change your world.

    Upon returning to the family business, we sensed a difference because we had changed, we were different. We grew so much from all of the challenges we met along the way, and we were prepared to join our old professional lives with our new personal ones. Our thoughts focused, and with the learned knowledge from our experiences, we moved forward with our dream - that simpler life in the country. But where would we live? Work is in a fast growing city and our ideal property would not be obtainable there. We brought out the maps and started planning the trips to look for our new home. A reasonable drive time to work was now an important factor on where to settle. Originally, we were looking about three hours away (our new business was mobile), but this was not possible now because the family business is a brick and mortar building. Ironically, our limitation on drive time to work carried us across the state line for possible prospects. Not holding back, we set out again and again to find our new home!


WE FINALLY DID IT!

Before this blog has posted, our home sold and we found a property we truly adore. We were so fortunate to stumble across such a place. The peaceful serenity, the majestic mature landscape, and the home holding historic significance in the area drew us in - perfect for us! The lush green pastures and a quaint red barn - perfect for the horses!


“We changed our thoughts, our thoughts changed us; this changed the way we saw the world";



The Beginning of a Whole New Life








Our New Home






 





Our Back Pastures and Barn














Our Side Pastures






  

Our Accomplishment -  
Fulfillment, a sense of peace



Go Green Tips:




  • once moved and unpacked, recycle your boxes - cut and fold them down before placing in recycle container or place an ad on Craigslist offering them free to someone else who can reuse them
  • recycle bucket water the horses didn't drink - water the plants with it


  Any Go Green Ideas?




The great thing in this world is not so much where you stand, as in what direction you are moving
Oliver Wendell Holmes
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